La Discipline positive pour les adolescents
Une méthode pour des ados épanouis, autonomes, responsables, et des parents plus détendus ! L’adolescence est une période de transition et de bouleversements qui inquiète souvent les parents et tourmente ceux qui la traversent. A l’ère du numérique et des réseaux sociaux, le désir d’autonomie des jeunes transforment les relations et laissent parfois les parents désemparés. Comment garder le lien et un échange de qualité avec son adolescent ? Comment le motiver ? Comment l’accompagner sans l’assister ou le contrôler ? Comment développer des relations basées sur un véritable respect mutuel, sortir des conflits du quotidien et les aider à devenir acteurs de leurs vies ? La Discipline Positive propose une démarche éducative qui allie fermeté et bienveillance. Ni punitive ni permissive, elle offre aux parents des outils concrets pour poser avec leurs ados une autorité juste fondée sur l’encouragement et le développement des compétences socio-émotionnelles
For twenty-five years, Positive Discipline has been the gold standard reference for grown-ups working with children. Now Jane Nelsen, distinguished psychologist, educator, and mother of seven, has written a revised and expanded edition. The key to positive discipline is not punishment, she tells us, but mutual respect. Nelsen coaches parents and teachers to be both firm and kind, so that any child–from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager–can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline with no loss of dignity. Inside you’ll discover how to • bridge communication gaps • defuse power struggles • avoid the dangers of praise • enforce your message of love • build on strengths, not weaknesses • hold children accountable with their self-respect intact • teach children not what to think but how to think • win cooperation at home and at school • meet the special challenge of teen misbehavior “It is not easy to improve a classic book, but Jane Nelson has done so in this revised edition. Packed with updated examples that are clear and specific, Positive Discipline shows parents exactly how to focus on solutions while being kind and firm. If you want to enrich your relationship with your children, this is the book for you.” –Sal Severe, author of How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too! Millions of children have already benefited from the counsel in this wise and warmhearted book, which features dozens of true stories of positive discipline in action. Give your child the tools he or she needs for a well-adjusted life with this proven treasure trove of practical advice. From the Trade Paperback edition.
Positive Discipline for Children with Special Needs
Over 2 Million Positive Discipline Books Sold! A Positive Approach To Helping Children With Special Needs Realize Their Potential Every child deserves to lead a happy and fulfilling life. For parents and teachers of children with special needs, helping their child to not only negotiate daily challenges, but to live fulfilling, meaningful lives, can be the most difficult challenge they will face. Over the years, millions of parents and teachers have come to trust Jane Nelsen’s classic Positive Discipline series for its consistent, commonsense approach to childrearing. Now, the bestselling series addresses the specific challenges that parents and teachers of children with special needs face, and offers them straightforward advice for supporting them in positive ways. In these pages are practical solutions to challenges such as: Learning to look beyond diagnostic labels ● Believing in each child's potential regardless of his/her stage of development ● Helping children integrate socially and interact with their peers ● Coping with the frustration that inevitably occurs when a child is being difficult ● Strengthening a child’s sense of belonging and significance ● And Many More! Use this book to answer such questions as: • How do you accommodate a disability, while still teaching a child to try their best? • How do you help a child cope with anger they may have trouble expressing, especially when that anger may on some level be justified? • How do you teach a child who may struggle with seemingly straight forward tasks to contribute to the world around them in a way that will be meaningful to them? “If you are raising or teaching a child with special needs, this book is a must-read. As the mother of a child with autism, my hopes and dreams for my son were no different than those of other parents. I wanted a parenting approach that helped my child grow up to be self confident, happy, and prepared for success in relationships, work, and life. I also needed practical, effective methods for addressing the significant, challenging behaviors I faced on a daily basis. Finally, in this amazing book, I found both….Thank you, thank you, thank you to the authors of this groundbreaking book.” - Rachel Fink Parks, MS, PCC From the Trade Paperback edition.
Positive Discipline for Teenagers Revised 3rd Edition
A Positive Approach To Raising Happy, Healthy and Mature Teenagers Adolescence can be a time of great stress and turmoil—not only for kids going through it, but for their parents as well. It’s normal for teens to explore a new sense of freedom and to redefine the ways in which they relate to their parents, and that process can sometimes leave parents feeling powerless, alienated, or excluded from their children’s lives. These effects can be magnified even further in this modern age of social networks, cell phones, and constant digital distraction. This newly revised and updated edition of Positive Discipline for Teenagers shows parents how to build stronger bridges of communication with their children, break the destructive cycles of guilt and blame that occur in parent-teen power struggles, and work toward greater mutual respect with their adolescents. At the core of the Positive Discipline approach is the understanding that teens still need their parents, just in different ways--and by better understanding who their teens really are, parents can learn to encourage both their teens and themselves, and instill good judgment without being judgmental. The methods in this book work to build vital social and life skills through encouragement and empowerment--not punishment. Truly effective parenting is about connection before correction. Over the years, millions of parents have come to trust Jane Nelsen’s classic Positive Discipline series for its consistent, commonsense approach to raising happy, responsible kids. This new edition is filled with proven, effective methods for coping with such parenting challenges as: -Fostering truly honest discussions with your teen -Helping your teen handle the online world -Turning mistakes into opportunities -Keeping your sanity while raising your teen—and making sure your own teenage issues aren’t weighing you down -Teaching your teen how to pursue the goal that make them happy…and a few that make you happy too (like chores) -Making sure you’re on your teen’s side, and that they know that -Avoiding the pitfalls of excessive control and excessive permissiveness
Positive Discipline in the Classroom Revised 3rd Edition
The Acclaimed Bestseller That Can Improve Your Classroom Experience Forever! Over the years, millions of parents have come to trust the classic Positive Discipline series for its consistent, commmonsense approach to child rearing. Hundreds of schools also use these amazingly effective strategies for restoring order and civility to today's turbulent classrooms. Now you too can use this philosophy as a foundation for fostering cooperation, problem-solving skills, and mutual respect in children. Imagine, instead of controlling behavior, you can be teaching; instead of confronting apathy, you will enjoy motivated, eager students! Inside, you'll discover how to: ·Create a classroom climate that enhances academic learning ·Use encouragement rather than praise and rewards ·Instill valuable social skills and positive behavior through the use of class meetings ·Understand the motivation behind students' behavior instead of looking for causes ·And much more! Over 1 million Positive Discipline books sold! From the Trade Paperback edition.
La Discipline positive
Si vous êtes parent, vous souvenez-vous du temps où les enfants n’auraient jamais osé vous contredire où vous répondre avec impertinence ? Si vous êtes enseignant, vous souvenez-vous de l’époque où les enfants s’asseyaient sagement dès qu’on le leur demandait ? Aujourd’hui, de nombreux parents et enseignants sont frustrés par le comportement des enfants, bien éloigné des manières qu’ils ont connues. La Discipline Positivede Jane Nelsen leur offre de façon pragmatique une méthode éducative, ni permissive ni punitive, dans un cadre à la fois ferme et bienveillant. Ferme, pour respecter le monde de l’adulte et bienveillant, pour respecter celui de l’enfant. Cette méthode permet aux enfants, quel que soit leur âge, de développer avec confiance les compétences de vie dont ils ont besoin pour devenir des adultes épanouis. De nombreux exemples concrets et des solutions pratiques viennent enrichir l’ouvrage ainsi qu’une « boite à outils » à la fin de chaque chapitre. Autant de repères pour une mise en pratique au quotidien. Mettre en confiance, encourager, impliquer et faire grandir l’enfant, voilà ce que propose la Discipline Positive. Un nouvel élan éducatif !
1 2 3 Magic
The simplest, most effective parenting program for raising happy, well-behaved children • 2016 Mom's Choice Award Winner • 2016 National Parenting Product Award Winner • 2016 Family Choice Award Winner "1-2-3 Magic made parenting fun again." "My three-year-old has become a different little girl, and she is so much happier now." "All I have to say is that the ideas in this book really WORK! It really is like magic!" "Our home has become a much more positive place." The sixth edition of the 1.8 million-copy bestseller 1-2-3 Magic by internationally acclaimed parenting expert Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. compiles two decades of research and experience into an easy-to-use program designed for parents striving to connect more deeply with their children and help them develop into healthy, capable teenagers and adults. Dr. Phelan breaks down the complex task of parenting into three straightforward steps: 1. Helping your children learn how to control their emotions and refrain from negative behavior, including tantrums, whining, and sibling rivalry 2. Encouraging good behavior in your children and providing positive feedback 3. Strengthening your relationships with your children to reinforce the natural parent-child bond You'll find tools to use in virtually every situation, as well as real-life stories from parents who have successfully navigated common parenting challenges such as reluctance to do chores, talking back, and refusing to go to bed or getting up in the middle of the night. For years, millions of parents from all over the world have used the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program to help their children develop emotional intelligence, raise healthier, happier families, and put the fun back into parenting. Along with other highly-respected parenting classics such as How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Parenting with Love and Logic, The 5 Love Languages of Children, No Drama Discipline, and The Whole Brain Child, 1-2-3 Magic is an essential tool for parents hoping to connect more deeply with their children.
From the Brain to the Classroom The Encyclopedia of Learning
Supplying a foundation for understanding the development of the brain and the learning process, this text examines the physical and environmental factors that influence how we acquire and retain information throughout our lives. The book also lays out practical strategies that educators can take directly into the classroom. • Covers a wide range of topics written by educationists, psychologists, and neuroscientists who are all experts in their field • Provides meaningful instructional strategies that can be applied in the real world to improve educators' results • Examines the brain through the human lifespan—prenatal, early childhood, childhood, adolescence, adult, and old age—in order to supply a comprehensive look at how neuroscience can be applied to improve learning at all stages of maturity • Addresses cognitive neuroscience findings as they relate to special education students—invaluable information for educators who work with this important group of learners
Guide de l adolescent Le
• La vie en famille • Les amis • Le corps qui s’éveille • La vie amoureuse et sexuelle • La scolarité • Les loisirs • Les risques et les problèmes Pour chacune des étapes de l’adolescence (les années collège, les années lycée, les années d’étudiant), le Dr Alain Braconnier analyse les grands thèmes de la vie quotidienne. Il répond aux questions que se posent les parents d’aujourd’hui et les aide à accompagner leurs enfants dans cette traversée tumultueuse : qu’est-ce qui fait un bon dialogue parents-adolescents ? Faut-il avoir peur de la discipline ? Comment être présent sans être envahissant ? Comment parler à un adolescent de la vie amoureuse et sexuelle ? Comment comprendre ses sautes d’humeur, ses provocations, ses silences ? Comment gérer les principales sources de conflit (sorties, téléphone, argent) ? À partir de quel moment faut-il s’inquiéter ? Comment peut-on se faire aider ? Un guide indispensable pour aider les parents à être les initiateurs dont l’adolescent a besoin. Médecin psychanalyste, spécialiste des questions d’adolescents, Alain Braconnier dirige à Paris une consultation pour adolescents. Il a notamment publié Le Sexe des émotions, L’Adolescence aux mille visages, Petit ou Grand Anxieux et Mère et Fils.
I Love You Always
I Love You When is an ode to motherly love that approaches a timeless topic with elegant simplicity and refreshing honesty. With a simple question, "Mom, will you love me my whole life?" Archibald sparks the most honest and relatable of answers from his mother, who goes on to tell her son about all the moments in life through which she loves him. "I love you when you behave and when your good behavior doesn't last" and "I love you when you look your best and when you're feeling your worst" are some of the scenes author Astrid Desbordes and illustrator Pauline Martin succeed in depicting with heartwarming candidness. A refreshing take on a timeless subject, I Love You When beautifully recounts a mother's unconditional love for her child."